yea, that shits awkward for me too. just make them soup and watch happy girlie movies. either they will cope with the fact that your their for them or or not which is probably what they really want anyway. your probably a worse person for faking being torn up about it.
i went to the milwaukee show. was drinking at a bar across the street and missed aestetic perfection and some other band. i kinda liked julian k but it was like 200 fucking degrees in the club and there were sweaty beasts all over so i stayed back till combi went on. combi was good :D